You know those times when the perfect moment

to say something important but potentially hurtful comes...and goes, because you let your cowardice snap that four and a half second window out of your life? And then you have to live with the 20/20 hindsight that will torment you until you actually go through with what you set out to do in the first place? I'm in that place right now. Dang it. Why can't I just be forthcoming and direct? Something is getting lost in the translation.